Saturday, July 20, 2019

The Gift of Life

This topic is sensitive to me. We struggled with fertility and were blessed with our one little girl. I know that God intended for us to love everyone and to help everyone have a chance at life. I know that the family was created for good and that children aren't an "inconvenience". I love my child and am grateful for the opportunity to be a mother. 
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Topic: Defending the sanctity of life (27)

Scripture:

"We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God’s eternal plan."

Lesson:

Why are we hear on Earth? Sing "I lived in heaven a long time ago". Talk about the plan of salvation and how Heavenly Father sent us here to learn and to grow. If you take another persons life, you take away their chance to learn and to grow.

Object lesson, give everyone a bowl of ice cream. Take someones away. Ask them if it was fair to take their ice cream? Heavenly father gave everyone a life, just like the ice cream, and it isn't fair if we take it away. Everyone should have the opportunity to live just like everyone should have the opportunity to eat their ice cream.

Video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6U3LD_6cX-k

Activity:

Object lesson above









Faith

Faith has been a hard topic for me in the past. I have struggled believing in things that I can't see. I have come to learn that you can see things in more ways than just your eyes. I recently lost a lot of my eye sight, so seeing anything has been hard for me. I think that it has helped me to recognize the Spirit and realize that it's ok that I can't see everything, but it's still true and it's still there. 
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Topic: Faith in Family life (18)

Scripture:

Alma 32:21 "And now as I said concerning faith - faith is not to have a perfect knowledge of things; therefore if ye have faith ye hope for things which are not seen, which are true."

Lesson:

Faith is like a little seed, when planted it will grow... What does that mean? When we are taught something, it is like planting a seed. With a seed do we just forget about it? No, if we did it would die. We have to water it, feed it sun light and care for it. We have to do the same for faith. We have to feed it and care for it with prayer and reading our scriptures.

Do you know what faith is? In the scripture we read, it says it is hope in things not seen. Do you have faith in mom and dad? You do, you have faith that dad will come home from work and that mom will make you breakfast. We also have to have faith in our Heavenly father, we have faith that he will take care of us and guide us and help us know good from bad. 

Video:

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media-library/video/topics/faith?lang=eng

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3B8Uj24ZRY

Activity:

Give everyone a few paper leaves.  Ask them to write or draw things that they can do to strengthen their faith.  Draw a trunk on a piece of paper and glue everyone's leaves on, creating a tree of faith.  

You can also plant seeds and watch them grow. 


Activities

I always loved the opportunity to play games and spend time with my family as a kid. Now that I am a parent, I realized that these were times are great opportunities to share the gospel with our children in a way that isn't necessarily gospel related. I think that work is important, but I also think that play is just as important when it comes to our children. 
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Topic: Wholesome family recreation: building strong families (22)

Scripture: 

"Vacations and recreational activities, also family work projects, give parents a good opportunity to teach the importance of developing a good work ethic. Doing things together gives a child and parent an opportunity to share their attention in a common objective. Provide opportunities to learn how to be independent and responsible. " - Ben B. Banks

Lesson:

Do activity first for this one (This will be the bulk of this lesson). After chosen activity, talk about how you feel. Was it fun, are you happy? Why did it make you happy to spend time doing fun things with your family. Heavenly Father gave us our family so we always could have best friends with us. We like to do things with our family and we have the great blessing to do fun things with them. 

Activity:

Spend time doing something your family loves ie. soccer, playing video games or board games, bike ride, playing at the park. 



Hi Ho, Hi Ho

I liked this quote from the reading, "Family work provides endless opportunities to recognize and fill others’ needs. It thus teaches us to love and serve one another, inviting us to be like Jesus Christ. " I also liked "sharing an everyday task can dissolve feelings of hierarchy, inviting light-hearted or intimate conversation that binds us together." I think that we sometimes forget to work together. We always have something going on, but working together provides us a time to connect and serve one another. 
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Topic: The meaning and blessing of family work (21)

Scripture:

Alma 9:28 "Therefore, prepare ye the way of the Lord, for the time is at hand that all men shall reap a reward of their works, according to that which they have been—if they have been righteous they shall reap the salvation of their souls, according to the power and deliverance of Jesus Christ; and if they have been evil they shall reap the damnation of their souls, according to the power and captivation of the devil."

Lesson:

Why do we work as a family? ( make a list together). We do work together not just to clean the house or plant the garden but to learn from each other, to love one another and to serve the family. What are chores that we hate doing? Is there any way we can make it better? 

Here is an object lesson. throw a pile of blocks on the grounds and have one person clean it up on their own. Do it again, but have everyone help. Read the story of the Little Red Hen. 

When we have tasks in the home, it makes work much easier for everyone if everybody helps out a little bit. How can we all help out better and do our part to keep peace in the home?

Video:

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media-library/video/standards-standards/work-and-self-reliance-standards?lang=eng&_r=1

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media-library/video/principle-5-work-take-responsibility?lang=eng


Activity: 

Make bread like from the story and share the reward at the end. 



Repent and Forgive

"Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of . . . repentance [and] forgiveness." 
Stepping up and saying you did something wrong can be hard, but sometimes forgiving someone who does something to you can be even harder. God gave us a way to repent for our sins through the Atonement. For a young child, both forgiving and repenting seem impossible, but through love and respect both are achievable for anyone. I am so grateful that I have the opportunity to repent and grow. 
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Topic: Repentance and Forgiveness (20) 

Scripture: 

1 Nephi 7:21 "And it came to pass that I did frankly aforgive them all that they had done, and I did exhort them that they would pray unto the Lord their God for bforgiveness. And it came to pass that they did so. And after they had done praying unto the Lord we did again travel on our journey towards the tent of our father."

Lesson:

In this scripture, Nephi and his brothers fight and Nephi gets hurt. He forgives his brothers and the pray and repent. In our family, we need to love each other and forgive each other. Even if someone does something to you, you can turn the other cheek and forgive them. Once you do something naughty or rude to someone else, you need to seek forgiveness from them and pray and ask for forgiveness from our Heavenly Father. 

As we watch the Adventure Time episode, Think about how they treat each other and how not forgiving is really just hurting themselves. See how when they do forgive, they are happy and have a more fun time. 

Video:

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media-library/video/2014-02-005-bullied-let-us-be-kind?lang=eng

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBUF_AVKOUU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aEUjlxOK-Y

Activity:

Watch Adventure time episode about forgiveness and talk about how we need to not fight with each other and we need to love. 





They Cannot Be Lost

I love this quote from the book: "the eternal sealings of faithful parents and the divine promises made to them for valiant service in the Cause of Truth, would save not only themselves, but likewise their posterity. " I think that marriage is one of the greatest gifts God gave us. I am so grateful for my marriage and my eternal companion. 
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Lesson: They cannot be lost: temple covenants save families (16)

Scripture: 

"There is no ordinance connected with the Gospel of Jesus Christ of greater importance, of more solemn and sacred nature, and more necessary to [our] eternal joy … than marriage." -Joseph Fielding Smith

Lesson:

How can we have a successful marriage? What things make marriage work? (make a list together of what things make a marriage happy). We need things like faith, prayer, forgiveness, patients, love, compassion, work and lots of listening to each other. When we are married, we promise to help each other no matter what and to work on things even when we are sad. Who can you think of who have been married a long time (prophet, nana and papa). How can you prepare now to have a happy marriage in the future? 

Video:

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media-library/video/why-is-temple-marriage-important-young-women?lang=eng

Activity: 

Have a show and tell. (it is hard for little kids to sit and listen) Learn to listen to another person and their interests. Try and sit quietly and wait our turn to share. In a marriage, you need to listen and be patient with each other. 




Family History

I love my family and I want to support them. I think that Family history is one way I can better do this. Elder Holland has promised that we will not loose our children if we all do family history. I think that being drawn closer to our history and our family can help give us an eternal perspective on life and why we are doing what we are doing. I am grateful for technology that allows me to do my family history form the comfort of my bed. I love my family and I love that I can be a missionary to them.
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Lesson: Supporting Family Across Generations (17)

Scripture: 

"Our doctrinal obligation is to our own ancestors. This is because the celestial organization of heaven is based on families." - Quentin L. Cook
Lesson: 
Do you like it when mom and dad share with you? If I buy ice cream, isn't it nice when I dish a bowl for you and let you have some too.
Why do we do family history? In the chapter it says "Hastening family history and temple work in our day is essential for the salvation and exaltation of families."  We do family history to help our ancestors have the opportunity to receive the gospel and gain eternal life. Just like the ice cream I share with you, we need to share the gospel with our ancestors and we do this through family history and temple work. How can we help our ancestors? (make a list of things we can do better this week to do family history work and report back next week.)
Video: 

Activities:
Share a story and pictures about an ancestor. Look on Family Search at our family tree and see if there are any little temples that pop up for temple work.




The Proclamation

I love the "Family: A Proclamation to the World". My sister is currently serving a mission in California. Last week, I told her this and my email to her: "I wanted to share with you something I have been learning in one of my classes this semester. The "Family: A Proclamation to the World" is so true. I love it's words and it is the only thing that seems to make sense to me sometimes. I have many friends leaving the church and I will say, some things look tempting. But with how crazy the world is, that document is something that for some reason has always just made sense to me and I know it's true. When our faith is being tested, I know that if we just keep pushing forward and hold on to the things that we know, everything else will be clearer eventually. " I know that this is a true document and I love being able to share my love for it. 
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Lesson: The Proclamation (29)

Scripture:

“The Family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ.” (The Family: A Proclamation to the World)

Lesson:

What is the proclamation? It was given in 1995 by President Gordon B. Hinckley. He tells us the importance of families, that we lived in Heaven before we came to Earth, who our families are and other important things about families. We have this guid to help us know all these important things about families so we don’t feel lost. When he gave this, lots of people thought he was crazy because none of what he said people thought would ever happen. But today, it is all happening and so the proclamation helps protect us and keep us on the straight and narrow.

Activity:

Stack It! This game teaches family unity. You will need a set of blocks (different sizes and shapes if possible), a score sheet, and a pen or pencil.
1. Create a score sheet with four vertical columns for four rounds, and three horizontal rows for teams (one for team one, another for team two, and a third left blank). Divide the family into two teams.
2. Have the teams alternate in stacking blocks, one block each turn, on top of each other until the stack of blocks tips over.
3. The team that causes the blocks to tip over receives no points. The other team receives five points. After the blocks have tipped over, use the score sheet to score the five points for the winning team in the column labeled “Round 1.”
4. Do the same thing for rounds 2, 3, and 4.
5. When the rounds are over, carry the numbers down each vertical column and put the total for each round in row 3 (instead of adding the points for each team by going across horizontally to the last column). Then add up the points in row 3 and put the total in the last column. You now have a combined score for both teams. Write “All of Us” in front of row 3.
6. Ask the family who gets more done: one person or team or all of us. To show that all of us is better, play the game over again, but this time have only one team: the whole family working together. When family members do it this way, the stack of blocks should go higher before tipping over. Point out that it’s better when we work together as a family.



Eternal Families

I know that the family is of God. I know that the family can be eternal and through the gospel of Jesus Christ, it will last. I know that God gave us families to help us through the challenges of life and that they can be the best friends that we will have. I am so grateful for the amazing family that I have been given and for all that they do for me. 
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Lesson: The Eternal Family (32)

Scripture:

 “But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Mark 10: 6–9).

Lesson: 

Start by asking, Why do we have eternal families? What makes a family eternal? Talk about the family unit, start with Adam and Eve and talk about how they were married and were told to have children. This created an eternal family. We have nad eternal family. There is a mom and dad who were sealed to each other in the temple then baby Wynne was born already sealed to them. Talk about temples: What are temples? Why do we have them? Temples are places where we go to make covenants with Heavenly Father. Mom and Dad went to the temple years ago and made covenants with God and with each other saying they will be together forever. 

Video: 

https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2011-02-001-families-can-be-together-forever?lang=eng &_r=1 

Activities: 

Make a blanket as a family. Have quilting squares or fabric that can be used to make a small snuggle blanket. As you sew them together as a family, talk about how the first two pieces are like mom and dad being sealed in the temple and as you add pieces it’s like the children. The child can than keep the snuggle as a reminder that their family is eternal. 


An Equal Partnership

In our society, it is popular for people to fell like there needs to be equality. I do believe in equality, but I think that people are morphing what is really true. Man and woman, husband and wife, they are equal partners. Man and women were created differently to complete each other. We work perfectly hand in hand for raising children and creating a home of peace. We are equal partners with different roles who love and support each other. 
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Lesson: Equal Partnership Between Men and Women 

Scripture: 

“Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners.” (The Family: A Proclamation to the World) 

Lesson: 

Who is in charge at home, mom or dad? Moms and dads are equal partners. They both work to help the family. They talk about things together and decide things together (do object lesson). They both try to bring all of those things (from the scripture) into the family. How do they do this? What can they do better to bring happiness into the family?

Object lesson: 

Use books to show how moms and dads both do work. Have two stacks of books, place a book on one stack and say “This is mom cooking dinner”, than place another on the other stack and say “This is dad paying the bills”, do this a few times to show that mom and dad have equal piles and are partners in what they do (So sometimes dad cooks dinner and sometimes mom mows the lawn or whatever else they switch up). 

Activity: 

Have a family council and talk about how we can bring “faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities” into our home. Come up with a plan on how each person will try to work on one of the things in order to help the family.





Honor They Father

Fatherhood is a great role that most men have the opportunity to fulfill. A father's involvement is an essential part to the development of a child, physically and emotionally. According to "The Family: A Proclamation to the World", the fathers rolls are to preside, provide and protect. My father has been a great example in my life. I love him dearly and wish I hadn’t taken him for granted like I had when I was younger. I have learned so much from him and know I will be learning from him the rest of my life. I am so grateful that I was given my dad, I don’t think that I would be even remotely where I am without his guidance and counsel. My husband is also an amazing father and he has grown so much in his new role as our daughter grows. I love My Heavenly Father and I know he loves me. 
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Lesson: Honor thy father (Chapter 13)

Time: about an hour depending on the activity chosen

Opening Song: Love is spoken here 

Scripture: 

“By divine design, fathers are to preside over their fami-lies in love and righteousness.” (The Family: A Proclomation to the World)

Lesson: 
Fathers are important in a family. Mom and dad are partners “By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness.” What is the role of a father? Fathers are asked to preside, provide and protect their families, what does that mean? Videos. We have an Earthly father and a Heavenly Father and we need to show both of them love and gratitude for what they have done for us. How can we do that? 
Video: 
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Activities:
Have a “dad” night (do what dad likes). For us this would be getting snow cones and playing board games together.

Think of ways we can show Heavenly Father we love him as well and talk about it through the week (pray, love others, give to others, etc).






Mothers Who Knew

Motherhood is one of the most important roles we can have here on Earth. The prophets have said Motherhood is near to divinity. It is the highest, holiest service to be assumed by mankind. It places her who honors its holy calling and service next to the angels." In our world today, Satin is trying to tear us down and I think he is doing this through mothers. If he brings the mother down, he brings the rest of the fmaily. I know that we as mothers have the responsibility to raise our children to love the Savior. I know that God gave me the blessing of motherhood because he loves me, even though it is one of the hardest things I have ever done. I know that mothers are important and I hope I can teach my Children of their importance.
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Lesson: Mothers as Nurturers (chapter 12)

Scripture: 
Alma 56:48 "And they rehearsed unto me the words of their mothers, saying: We do not doubt our mothers knew it."

Lesson: 
Why do we have moms? (As a family, make a list of what mom does).
Mary, Elizabeth, Martha, Sariah, Mothers of the army of Helaman, Sarah, Emma Smith, Pioneer moms
What do all these women have in common? They were mothers who were faithful and raised their children with love. Discuss how they showd their love for their children and why it made a difference in their lives.
How does your mom show her love for you? It kinda matches the list we made earlier. Everything mom does, she does out of love for you and for the Lord.
How can we show mom that we love her?
We also have a Heavenly mother, how can we show her our love. (we keep the commandments and make good choices. The same thing that we do to make our earthly mother happy)
Video: 

Activities: Mom night. Do things that mom loves like a spa night, eating ice cream, a game.







Always Dating

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